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My husband doesn’t even try to satisfy me! What should I do?

We we first got married our sex life wasn’t great, but it was good. He was kinda lost as far as knowing the female body and when I told him to do something I knew would feel good to me, he’d do it no problem.

It’s very hard for me to reach a orgasm. The only two ways I can is by oral or rubbing. And I’ve told my husband this. But he just doesn’t seem into worrying about how I feel on it.

He has always been very quick in bed so I’ve always understood there is only so much he can do as far as sex, but its before and after that get me. Before he makes no real moves toward’s actually turning me on...(goes in dry more then half the time) And after he finishes unless he is wants to go a second round I’m out of luck.

I love my husband dearly and I love having sex with him..but honestly it’s gotten to the point that I just don’t enjoy it anymore. I have talked to him about it and he said he’ll try harder and he did...ONE time.

I just don’t know what to do. It’s gotten to the point that after sex I end up leaving the bed while he goes to sleep to go cry in the living room. I just feel very unpleased in that part of our relationship and I just wish he wanted to please me the way I want to please him.

I know he loves me he tells me all the time. He always leans over to give me a kiss through out the day, holds my hand, kisses my forehead...But the sex is just killing me.

I try everything I can to make sex good for him. Just about anything he asks me to do for him I willing do it happily. But every time I ask anything of him, he says he will but doesnt or does it one time then never again.

I just don’t know what to do anymore. I have talked to him many times, explained that I need more out of our sex life and he just doesn’t listen I guess. I’ve tried playing fun games, but the sex always turns out the same way.

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