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This woman's porn addiction almost ruined her life - She watched porn for 8 hours a night

This woman’s porn addiction almost ruined her life - She watched porn for 8 hours a night

Porn addiction is a very real thing and can have just as dire consequences as an addiction to drugs or alcohol. One woman decided to share her struggle with porn to raise awareness of this lesser known illness.

25/09/2015 Saa 13:57:54
Painful sex is more common than you think and it's time we talked about it

Painful sex is more common than you think and it’s time we talked about it

If you’re experiencing pain during sex, you probably think it means there’s something wrong with you. However, it’s much more common than you think, it’s just that no one’s talking about it.

22/09/2015 Saa 12:33:15
I’m The Woman Who Slept With Your Husband (And I’m Not Sorry)

I’m The Woman Who Slept With Your Husband (And I’m Not Sorry)

I’m the girl who slept with your husband, and I’m not sorry.

18/09/2015 Saa 17:33:24
I had a one night stand with my boss and he got me pregnant, what should I do?

I had a one night stand with my boss and he got me pregnant, what should I do?

I’m quite naive when it comes to men and I started a fling with my boss. Now I’m pregnant.

15/09/2015 Saa 11:24:05
I slept with my sister's husband and now I'm pregnant!

I slept with my sister’s husband and now I’m pregnant!

He’s Touch Just Made My Skin Heat Up And I Couldn’t Control Myself.

11/09/2015 Saa 07:57:12
 I’ve never had an orgasm during intercourse. What's wrong with me?

I’ve never had an orgasm during intercourse. What’s wrong with me?

“If you can’t have orgasms with intercourse, you’re normal,” assures Stephanie Buehler, director of the Buehler Institute for sex therapy in Irvine, Calif. “Sometimes women get upset because their partners say, ‘My last lover could have orgasms, so there must be something wrong with you.’”

10/09/2015 Saa 14:32:20
“I Slept With My Best Friend’s Girlfriend And Now She Wants Me”

“I Slept With My Best Friend’s Girlfriend And Now She Wants Me”

This one happened a year ago when I was at University, I lived with my roommate, Eric, he and I were more than just roommates, we were actually best friends.

2/09/2015 Saa 13:17:26
My husband sometimes picks his calls when we’re having sex

My husband sometimes picks his calls when we’re having sex

1/09/2015 Saa 18:33:36
'We've been together for a year but never had sex'

’We’ve been together for a year but never had sex’

I’ve been with my girlfriend for almost a year. We’ve never had intercourse. Both of us have had sex with people in past relationships. I don’t understand why she has had sex with them and not me. Or why she won’t have sex now. I don’t think she enjoys sex. She never talks about it but makes excuses not to do it. I love her. She says she loves me. We have talked some time ago about the lack of sex but nothing changed. I don’t want to bring it up again for fear of an argument, but I am getting increasingly frustrated.

31/08/2015 Saa 16:02:37
Please Advise!!!,I Am in Love with a Guy who Doesn’t Love Me…

Please Advise!!!,I Am in Love with a Guy who Doesn’t Love Me…

Please Advise,I Am in Love with a Guy who Doesn’t Love Me As Much As My Boyfriend Who i don’t Love Anymore.This is from Imirasire reader, who wants your advice, please read and tell her what you think she should do.

28/08/2015 Saa 18:37:54
Should I give my boyfriend my virginity to make him stay?

Should I give my boyfriend my virginity to make him stay?

He seems confused because he says he loves me, yet he just wants to be best friends or friends with benefits.

26/08/2015 Saa 11:36:05
I cheated on my husband and I loved it, Should I Confess?

I cheated on my husband and I loved it, Should I Confess?

Infidelity/Cheating is something that always causes a lot of emotions amongst men and women. Men accuse women of cheating, and women just assume all men cheat. Often times people in relationships go about their business in relationships until someone is caught cheating. What happens if someone confesses though? Is it the same? Should the guilty party feel less guilty?

24/08/2015 Saa 16:43:55
The guy I’m sleeping with slept with my mom. What should I do?

The guy I’m sleeping with slept with my mom. What should I do?

I just found out that the older married man I’ve been having an on-off again affair with for the last ten years (the last year very regularly) also had an affair with my mother (now deceased) thirty years ago.

24/08/2015 Saa 12:41:04
True Confession — My Househelp Is Seducing Me, Need Help!

True Confession — My Househelp Is Seducing Me, Need Help!

Lately, this young girl has summoned courage to seduce me; to be sincere, she is tempting me.I often return to the house ahead of my wife. Sometimes, her boobs will just slip out of her ‘top’ and she will simply apologize.

20/08/2015 Saa 15:26:20
What to do if your wife doesn’t want to have sex

What to do if your wife doesn’t want to have sex

Two people are never going to want sex at exactly the same time, every single time, so all relationships have at least some degree of incompatibility. Couples can sometimes navigate minor discrepancies with ease, but more often than not, they wind up fighting.

17/08/2015 Saa 14:29:40
Can I have a fulfilling sex life without orgasm?

Can I have a fulfilling sex life without orgasm?

12/08/2015 Saa 16:09:46
How To Deal With Your Difficult Woman In 3 Steps

How To Deal With Your Difficult Woman In 3 Steps

Ever know a woman who’s always right - or at least, one who thinks she is? Of course, nobody’s perfect. And great relationships rest on the ability to tactfully deal with differences

9/08/2015 Saa 21:29:07
How do I tell my wife I fear opening a joint bank account with her?

How do I tell my wife I fear opening a joint bank account with her?

My wife and I have several bank accounts and none is jointly owned. Recently, she suggested we merge all of them.I have heard negative stories of joint accounts and would not want to get there. Though we trust each other, you never know with money. How do I tell her about my fears?

5/08/2015 Saa 16:30:12
Is it okay to answer a phone during sex?

Is it okay to answer a phone during sex?

Our love affair with mobile phones, iPads and other gadgets is ruining our sex lives, research shows.

29/07/2015 Saa 12:14:36
Ever since my wife got pregnant, I feel awkward about intercourse when there is a baby in there. What should I do?

Ever since my wife got pregnant, I feel awkward about intercourse when there is a baby in there. What should I do?

Ever since my wife got pregnant, I am afraid to have sex with her. She is feeling angry and hurt like I don’t want her anymore, but the reality is, I feel awkward about intercourse when there is a baby in there. What should I do?

27/07/2015 Saa 13:22:02
Why does my girlfriend talk to guys behind my back?

Why does my girlfriend talk to guys behind my back?

My girlfriend and I have been going out for about 7 months. Things are great between us but lately Ive noticed they she texts and talks to a lot more guys now.

26/07/2015 Saa 21:42:28
Penis size: is there a correlation with sexual satisfaction? A scientific look

Penis size: is there a correlation with sexual satisfaction? A scientific look

A recent study published in the British Journal of Urology claims to have finally laid the kibosh on the considerable debate surrounding the average size of the penis.

22/07/2015 Saa 09:14:09
My husband ejaculates too quickly all the time, how do I help?

My husband ejaculates too quickly all the time, how do I help?

I am 27 and my husband is 30. We have been married for last 4 months now, every time we have sex he cums within minutes.

21/07/2015 Saa 18:19:00
'My wife keeps cheating on me and now wants an open relationship'

’My wife keeps cheating on me and now wants an open relationship’

Not long after we started dating, I discovered my girlfriend was still seeing her ex. We nearly broke up but she promised to end it. Things were okay but a few months later I discovered she’d slept with someone else. Again we worked through it and went on to get married. Six months ago I caught her flirting with some guys online. She said it was just fun and would stop. This weekend I’ve found she’s stayed in touch with one of those men. We talked and she says we’re in an open relationship. Are we? I don’t know what to say.

20/07/2015 Saa 15:45:40
Relationship advice: Why does my husband only touch me when he wants sex?

Relationship advice: Why does my husband only touch me when he wants sex?

My husband seems to touch me only when he wants sex. I’d love to cuddle more, but how can I make him understand that when I hug him it doesn’t mean I want to run to the bedroom and have sex?

15/07/2015 Saa 18:53:44
Save Your Love Life With A Natural, Drug-Free Way To Cure Erectile Dysfunction

Save Your Love Life With A Natural, Drug-Free Way To Cure Erectile Dysfunction

When it gets to the point where you can’t even remember the last time that you had sex because of erectile dysfunction, you need to get help. But what if you don’t want to spend thousands of dollars on prescription drugs with a ton of side effects, or don’t feel comfortable going to your GP? Erectile Dysfunction Protocol says it has a guaranteed way to cure this oh-so common problem naturally.

15/07/2015 Saa 18:51:21
How do I tell my partner what I need in bed?

How do I tell my partner what I need in bed?

He isn’t a mind reader, so you have to speak up and be clear about what you want. Framing your request as a compliment really works. Want him to pleasure you more? Tell him how turned on you were during your last lovemaking because he really took his time. Before you know, he’ll be offering more foreplay than you can handle!

14/07/2015 Saa 16:08:09
I feel guilty going to church after having sex

I feel guilty going to church after having sex

My husband is often amorous on Sunday mornings when we get a chance to be together for a longer time in bed. This often leads to sex.

6/07/2015 Saa 10:06:48
How to Say No to Sex Without Upsetting Your Partner

How to Say No to Sex Without Upsetting Your Partner

Think of your sex life as a bank account. Keep it topped up at a healthy level. If you had sex twice last week, it’s OK to say no because you’re knackered the week after. Not so good, if you haven’t had sex for three months.

3/07/2015 Saa 17:09:11
Do Condoms Cause My Girlfriend To Bleed During Sex?

Do Condoms Cause My Girlfriend To Bleed During Sex?

My girlfriend and I have had sex a couple times without a condom and everything was fine. When we tried with a condom, she bled. Could the condom be causing the bleeding?

2/07/2015 Saa 13:14:10
I’m Insecure About My Penis. What Size Satisfies A Woman?

I’m Insecure About My Penis. What Size Satisfies A Woman?

I have never had sex because I’m always insecure about having a small penis, and I feel the girl would laugh and spread the word to her friends. I want to know what size satisfies a woman.

30/06/2015 Saa 19:12:34
Do Women Experience Nocturnal ‘Erections’ Similar To Men’s?

Do Women Experience Nocturnal ‘Erections’ Similar To Men’s?

Do women experience nocturnal ’erections’ similar male nocturnal erections? I understand the male version has little to do with feeling sexually aroused but is more associated with REM sleep, and may help keep the penis healthy with oxygenated blood supply during the night. If this is true, isn’t it likely that women’s bodies do something similar?

26/06/2015 Saa 15:53:36
Why do I get so wet when I'm aroused and during sex? Can I Control This?

Why do I get so wet when I’m aroused and during sex? Can I Control This?

I become very wet when I’m aroused. This is problematic when it becomes difficult for my partner to stay in me when we’re in certain positions. Is there anything I can do about my wetness? And what is it that causes me to become so lubricated anyway?

25/06/2015 Saa 11:15:40
'I can't get over the fact my boyfriend kissed someone before he met me. What can I do?'

’I can’t get over the fact my boyfriend kissed someone before he met me. What can I do?’

I am really depressed over my boyfriend’s past. We’re in our twenties and both virgins - but I was not his first kiss. He had a silly relationship at school when he was 14 and I can’t seem to get over it. I can’t accept he shared that with another girl. I feel less special, that she is better than me and all the kisses we have can never be as good as his first kiss with her. I know this is irrational but I can’t help it. I think of it all the time and it’s ruining our relationship as well as taking over my life.

24/06/2015 Saa 15:07:20
Why do some men need several hours to recuperate after sex, but it only takes me, like, five minutes?

Why do some men need several hours to recuperate after sex, but it only takes me, like, five minutes?

The difference is in the hormones that course through the veins of a man and woman during sex.

23/06/2015 Saa 17:43:47
'I'm scared of getting pregnant, even after foreplay. What should I do?'

’I’m scared of getting pregnant, even after foreplay. What should I do?’

I recently had sex with my new guy. We kissed and then he put his fingers in me, which was fantastic. After that he undressed and put on a condom and we had sex. This was also really good. But ever since I’ve been terrified I could be pregnant. He thinks I can’t be, but says I’ve now scared him as he doesn’t want to be a dad yet. What should I do? I am so afraid. I was scared with my last boyfriend too.

22/06/2015 Saa 11:51:28
20 year-old virgin: Should I have sex to please my boyfriend?

20 year-old virgin: Should I have sex to please my boyfriend?

Offering sex as a trade off for believing you made someone feel bad is not a good reason to "break your virginity", writes Dr Petra Boynton, sex and relationships agony aunt.

19/06/2015 Saa 18:05:37
“Why was it so hard to resist sex before marriage, but now in marriage, resisting is all I do?”

“Why was it so hard to resist sex before marriage, but now in marriage, resisting is all I do?”

“Why do I love my husband, but don’t want to make love?” “Why was sex so good before marriage when I shouldn’t have been having it, but now that I can, its lost its sizzle, and I’ve lost desire?”

19/06/2015 Saa 16:39:33
My husband has a small penis. What positions can we try?

My husband has a small penis. What positions can we try?

My husband has a small penis. The sex is good, and he’s very secure with himself, but I’m afraid to try certain positions. Any suggestions?

18/06/2015 Saa 15:59:31
I feel like I'm about to orgasm during sex, but never quite do. Should I give up?'

I feel like I’m about to orgasm during sex, but never quite do. Should I give up?’

When I have sex I get very turned on and I feel like I’m going to orgasm. I’m nearly there. But then I don’t come. I feel ashamed and often fake it so my boyfriend won’t know. Is there something physically wrong with me that means I will never orgasm? Should I just give up trying?

13/06/2015 Saa 11:31:35
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