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The Single-handedly Woman that Saved 30,000 Orphan Children, is now a Refugee. Unbelievable!

The Single-handedly Woman that Saved 30,000 Orphan Children, is now a Refugee. Unbelievable!

Touching story: Born in Rwanda, Marguerite Barankitse has dedicated her life to raising thousands of children from violence and abuse. But you can’t believe that her own life is in danger.

28/04/2016 Saa 11:53:09
PARENTS: How to Encourage Your Child do his/her Homework Without any Fight

PARENTS: How to Encourage Your Child do his/her Homework Without any Fight

Parents around the world would love the magic formula to encourage kids to do their homework! Alas, it’s not as simple as waving a wand, but there are some methods for encouraging your kids to develop and stick to a regular homework routine.

23/04/2016 Saa 12:32:47
What can I do to have a Baby Boy? Here are 3 Easy Steps to Produce a Baby Boy Naturally

What can I do to have a Baby Boy? Here are 3 Easy Steps to Produce a Baby Boy Naturally

Many couples yearn to have both a baby boy and a baby girl in their families. Both boys and girls can bring much joy into the home. This article is about how to conceive a baby boy, so you can add more color to your family though, of course, the most important thing is not your baby’s gender, but his or her health and the happiness of the family. Those factors can never be replaced.

22/04/2016 Saa 16:09:43
Can a Woman Become Pregnant During Her Period?

Can a Woman Become Pregnant During Her Period?

It’s a common misconception that if a woman has sex during her period, cannot become pregnant. While a woman is unlikely to get pregnant during her period, it is absolutely possible.

20/04/2016 Saa 17:57:09
My pal's boyfriend turned me on by kissing my neck. What Should I do?

My pal’s boyfriend turned me on by kissing my neck. What Should I do?

Dear Stellah,

3/03/2016 Saa 15:12:39
How to Help Your Child Deal with School Bullies

How to Help Your Child Deal with School Bullies

If your child is being bullied, here’s how to help him handle the situation.
Is your child being bullied at school? In most African primary and High schools 60 percent of respondents said they or someone they know have been or are now being bullied.

16/02/2016 Saa 13:30:25
Making Coffins doesn’t mean we Celebrate Death, Zimbabwean Mutau, Reveals.

Making Coffins doesn’t mean we Celebrate Death, Zimbabwean Mutau, Reveals.

Despite Aids-related deaths having fallen by more than two thirds in Zimbabwe since 2001, as a result of education campaigns and the increased availability of free antiretroviral drugs, more than 60,000 people a year still die because of the virus, according to the country’s National Aids Council.

4/02/2016 Saa 10:25:17
All you need to know about challenges related to sex.

All you need to know about challenges related to sex.

Some youth have raised different questions and most of them, are about sex something that means that it is/ sex done all the time. Just sit back, relax and read. Let the specialist answer your question.

1/02/2016 Saa 18:10:28
Our marriage is great but my sex drive is higher than my wife’s, what should I do?

Our marriage is great but my sex drive is higher than my wife’s, what should I do?

I’ve been married for 13 years. Our relationship is great, but my sex drive is higher than my wife’s.

27/12/2015 Saa 22:21:48
I found my son having S£X with my wife... Man cries for help

I found my son having S£X with my wife... Man cries for help

Relationship and Family matter: Man needs help after finding his son cheating with his wife.

24/12/2015 Saa 12:01:17
'How do I know if I'm good in bed?'

’How do I know if I’m good in bed?’

How do you know when you’ve sexually satisfied someone? I mean really properly? I can’t be sure with my husband. I think sometimes he masturbates and he said he thinks about sex sometimes when he isn’t with me. When I checked his pants I’m sure there was old sperm in them. I read somewhere I could see it in his eyes if he was happy after sex - but I looked and I couldn’t tell.

22/12/2015 Saa 10:41:26
She is older than me but I love her, should I marry her

She is older than me but I love her, should I marry her

I am aged 25 and dating a 28-year-old woman who is the mother of two children. We have dated for about a year and are so in love that we have decided to move in, but there is the small matter of age.

Would you advise me to marry this woman, who is three years older than me and is already a mother of two?

21/12/2015 Saa 09:30:55
Does circumcision affect sexual sensation?

Does circumcision affect sexual sensation?

Besides the uncomfortable idea of a steel blade in a highly sensitive region, many uncircumcised brothers are concerned with the effect circumcision would have on their sensation of sexual intercourse. Does circumcision really affect how the cock feels and derives gratification from the act of sex?

15/12/2015 Saa 00:40:06
I suffer from back problems, and during sex I sometimes have to stop because of the pain. What can I do?

I suffer from back problems, and during sex I sometimes have to stop because of the pain. What can I do?

All backs are not created equal, so finding a comfortable position is a trail-and-error kind of deal.

11/12/2015 Saa 22:55:23
Just discovered my fiancé has four children - What Should I do?

Just discovered my fiancé has four children - What Should I do?

I am 25 years old and my girlfriend is 23. We have been in a relationship for two-and-a-half years and we had planned to get married this year.

7/12/2015 Saa 18:23:03

" My dad broke my virginity when I was thirteen - Should I tell my current boyfriend? "

3/12/2015 Saa 14:57:54
This man keeps giving excuses not to make love to me, am I not pretty enough?

This man keeps giving excuses not to make love to me, am I not pretty enough?

I wouldn’t say I’m in a relationship as such, but I’ve been with a guy for six years on and off.

3/12/2015 Saa 14:20:37
Why Does My Husband Look at Porn? Should I Be Worried?

Why Does My Husband Look at Porn? Should I Be Worried?

Is your husband looking at porn? Don’t freak out, get help. If he’s addicted to porn he needs an accountability partner. It can be a pastor or a friend but give him time. It may take a while for him to be aroused by you again. He needs to know you’re his ally. Porn is a common struggle for men and relationship expert Sheila Wray Gregoire explains how women can help their men battle that addiction.

2/12/2015 Saa 17:28:37
My girlfriend loves sex, but she has never had an orgasm

My girlfriend loves sex, but she has never had an orgasm

My girlfriend of four years has never come during sex with me, or with anyone else.

27/11/2015 Saa 16:28:38
'Can I date my ex-boyfriend's best friend?'

’Can I date my ex-boyfriend’s best friend?’

When my boyfriend and I broke up we stayed friends. He quickly met someone else, who he’s happy with, and I like. We hang out with a bigger group of people and that includes my ex’s best friend. In the last few months I have found myself falling in love with him and at a recent party we got drunk together and after he walked me home I invited him in and we had sex. I assumed it was just a one-off - but turns out he felt the same. We are now seeing each other but have told nobody. I worry it will upset my ex and don’t know what we should do.

25/11/2015 Saa 16:21:40
Why does it feel like I have to pee during sex?

Why does it feel like I have to pee during sex?

Every now and then when I have sex with my boyfriend, I get a sensation to urinate. It had been happening for a while, so I started going to the bathroom before we had sex to figure out of that was really it, but it still happens. I even tried refraining from drinking any liquids before meeting up with him, but it’s the same thing. Is something wrong with me?

23/11/2015 Saa 17:21:55
'How can I tell whether a woman has had an orgasm?'

’How can I tell whether a woman has had an orgasm?’

Dr Petra Boynton, the Telegraph’s sex and relationships expert offers advice on the signs that a woman has ’come’ and explains why it’s not an exact science...

19/11/2015 Saa 16:52:41
'My boyfriend won't have sex with me, but watches porn and looks at other women. What can I do?

’My boyfriend won’t have sex with me, but watches porn and looks at other women. What can I do?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for several years and the relationship is great in most ways. Before me, he’d never had a long-term partner, only casual sex and has slept with nearly a hundred women. He watches a lot of porn and masturbates at least once a day. However, he has lost interest in sex with me. He looks at other women a lot, even when he is with me. He’s adamant he loves me, finds me attractive and would never cheat. He says the problem is because he associates sex with the ’thrill of the chase’. Do we have any hope for a future? I’m in my 30s and would like to start a family.

18/11/2015 Saa 16:34:27
'I'm too embarrassed to talk dirty. How can I get what I want in bed?'

’I’m too embarrassed to talk dirty. How can I get what I want in bed?’

I’m looking for help in talking about sex. I’ve found lots of advice online that says you should say what you want, but I have no idea how to do that. I’m not very confident and get embarrassed easily. Sex is often disappointing because it isn’t how I want it. But I don’t know what to say to make it better.

16/11/2015 Saa 07:26:55
HELP! My Wife Wants To Kill Me With sex

HELP! My Wife Wants To Kill Me With sex

This man in his mid 40s has come out to publicly reveal his wife’s attitude towards sex. He says she is never satisfied and he is wondering if he is the one with a problem.

4/11/2015 Saa 10:16:14
How Can I Stop Having Sex With My Brother-In-Law?

How Can I Stop Having Sex With My Brother-In-Law?

I will deliberately wake my husband when he is at the pick of his sleep, informing him that I was going to the toilet. I would always make sure I get back to the room within 5 minutes, but I tell you, I often return satisfied.

28/10/2015 Saa 11:26:41
Finding a good woman is something that ended with our parents’ generation - Girls are just monsters?

Finding a good woman is something that ended with our parents’ generation - Girls are just monsters?

Girls are just monsters. We understand that in this day and age, it is tough to find a good man, but believe me, at least for you girls, there is still hope. For us men, to find a good woman, that is something that ended with our parents’ generation.

26/10/2015 Saa 00:16:32
I hate being a black girl; I wish I could drain all the black blood out and rip the black skin off me

I hate being a black girl; I wish I could drain all the black blood out and rip the black skin off me

Hi everyone my name is Naomi, i am a 25 years old black female and i hate being ablack girl.

22/10/2015 Saa 16:58:08
I need more sex than my husband can provide

I need more sex than my husband can provide

Dear LiveWise,
I have been married for 10 years and I feel I can’t go on anymore. I love my husband so much it hurts to have to tell him I want to leave. We have been fighting for four years now, since my dad died, and even more so for the last year, after my mom died. Mainly it’s because I need more sex and intimacy than he can provide.

I feel lost without my parents and I need human contact but he can’t seem to find it important enough to give it to me. He says he loves me but doesn’t have a sex drive any more. He is in his mid-40s and healthy. The more I ask about it the more he holds it back from me. We used to make love almost every other day for five years. Now it’s excuses all the time. Today he says: “I’m too tired.” Tomorrow, “my hip hurts.” The next day, “maybe tomorrow.”

If I have to do everything myself, why should I be married?

16/10/2015 Saa 17:38:54
How do I disclose to my wife that I am addicted to commercial sex workers?

How do I disclose to my wife that I am addicted to commercial sex workers?

I’m a married man with four children under the age of 14. I’ve been with my wife for 16 years and married to her for 10, but I have a very dark secret.

15/10/2015 Saa 14:54:06
My boyfriend has stopped talking to me after I told him my ex was better than him in bed

My boyfriend has stopped talking to me after I told him my ex was better than him in bed

I have been with my partner for two years and we get on really well, but I still think about my ex from three years ago.

14/10/2015 Saa 11:03:12
I left my cheating husband, and now I’m the one who feels guilty - Please Help!

I left my cheating husband, and now I’m the one who feels guilty - Please Help!

My husband cheated on me, and I left him. I broke apart our family, and sometimes I look at our daughter and think I should have tried harder to forgive him.

13/10/2015 Saa 17:50:28
 I had sex with the boss's daughter... and his wife who wants more

I had sex with the boss’s daughter... and his wife who wants more

Where I work (it’s a smallish company, employing only 10 or 11 people) we have 2 buildings. One is the sales, where I work and the other is the accounts building just up the road. Every now and then I need to pop up to the accounts office for various things.

10/10/2015 Saa 16:41:31
I’m Sleeping With My Mother’s Husband & I’m Pregnant By Him

I’m Sleeping With My Mother’s Husband & I’m Pregnant By Him

I’m a 21 year old female and I’m messing around with my mom’s husband.He’s very attractive and have a unique swag about him.

7/10/2015 Saa 11:41:07
My husband doesn't even try to satisfy me! What should I do?

My husband doesn’t even try to satisfy me! What should I do?

We we first got married our sex life wasn’t great, but it was good. He was kinda lost as far as knowing the female body and when I told him to do something I knew would feel good to me, he’d do it no problem.

3/10/2015 Saa 17:06:07
My female colleagues say he is so good in bed, should I agree to sleep with him?

My female colleagues say he is so good in bed, should I agree to sleep with him?

I’m 26 and I work in a really fun office full of people my age. I’ve been single for 18 months and in that time I’ve struck up a bit of a thing with this guy in my office.

2/10/2015 Saa 09:08:30
I am having sex with my daughter's boyfriend ... What Should I Do!

I am having sex with my daughter’s boyfriend ... What Should I Do!

My daughter Anna had boyfriends regularly and they were all quite the same. They were young, awkward teenage boys who were overjoyed they had a girlfriend ...

1/10/2015 Saa 09:48:11
My husband has got his best friend’s 19-year-old sister pregnant - how can I forgive him?

My husband has got his best friend’s 19-year-old sister pregnant - how can I forgive him?

I’ve been married for seven years and we have two young sons. The other night my husband came home, sat me down and told me that he’s got a 19-year-old girl pregnant.

29/09/2015 Saa 11:27:36
This woman's porn addiction almost ruined her life - She watched porn for 8 hours a night

This woman’s porn addiction almost ruined her life - She watched porn for 8 hours a night

Porn addiction is a very real thing and can have just as dire consequences as an addiction to drugs or alcohol. One woman decided to share her struggle with porn to raise awareness of this lesser known illness.

25/09/2015 Saa 13:57:54
Painful sex is more common than you think and it's time we talked about it

Painful sex is more common than you think and it’s time we talked about it

If you’re experiencing pain during sex, you probably think it means there’s something wrong with you. However, it’s much more common than you think, it’s just that no one’s talking about it.

22/09/2015 Saa 12:33:15

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