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Many couples yearn to have both a baby boy and a baby girl in their families. Both boys and girls can bring much joy into the home. This article is about how to conceive a baby boy, so you can add more color to your family though, of course, the most important thing is not your baby’s gender, but his or her health and the happiness of the family. Those factors can never be replaced.
It’s a common misconception that if a woman has sex during her period, cannot become pregnant. While a woman is unlikely to get pregnant during her period, it is absolutely possible.
If your child is being bullied, here’s how to help him handle the situation.
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Some youth have raised different questions and most of them, are about sex something that means that it is/ sex done all the time. Just sit back, relax and read. Let the specialist answer your question.
I’ve been married for 13 years. Our relationship is great, but my sex drive is higher than my wife’s.
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How do you know when you’ve sexually satisfied someone? I mean really properly? I can’t be sure with my husband. I think sometimes he masturbates and he said he thinks about sex sometimes when he isn’t with me. When I checked his pants I’m sure there was old sperm in them. I read somewhere I could see it in his eyes if he was happy after sex - but I looked and I couldn’t tell.
I am aged 25 and dating a 28-year-old woman who is the mother of two children. We have dated for about a year and are so in love that we have decided to move in, but there is the small matter of age.
Would you advise me to marry this woman, who is three years older than me and is already a mother of two?
Besides the uncomfortable idea of a steel blade in a highly sensitive region, many uncircumcised brothers are concerned with the effect circumcision would have on their sensation of sexual intercourse. Does circumcision really affect how the cock feels and derives gratification from the act of sex?
I suffer from back problems, and during sex I sometimes have to stop because of the pain. What can I do?
All backs are not created equal, so finding a comfortable position is a trail-and-error kind of deal.
I am 25 years old and my girlfriend is 23. We have been in a relationship for two-and-a-half years and we had planned to get married this year.
I wouldn’t say I’m in a relationship as such, but I’ve been with a guy for six years on and off.
Is your husband looking at porn? Don’t freak out, get help. If he’s addicted to porn he needs an accountability partner. It can be a pastor or a friend but give him time. It may take a while for him to be aroused by you again. He needs to know you’re his ally. Porn is a common struggle for men and relationship expert Sheila Wray Gregoire explains how women can help their men battle that addiction.
My girlfriend of four years has never come during sex with me, or with anyone else.
When my boyfriend and I broke up we stayed friends. He quickly met someone else, who he’s happy with, and I like. We hang out with a bigger group of people and that includes my ex’s best friend. In the last few months I have found myself falling in love with him and at a recent party we got drunk together and after he walked me home I invited him in and we had sex. I assumed it was just a one-off - but turns out he felt the same. We are now seeing each other but have told nobody. I worry it will upset my ex and don’t know what we should do.
Every now and then when I have sex with my boyfriend, I get a sensation to urinate. It had been happening for a while, so I started going to the bathroom before we had sex to figure out of that was really it, but it still happens. I even tried refraining from drinking any liquids before meeting up with him, but it’s the same thing. Is something wrong with me?
Dr Petra Boynton, the Telegraph’s sex and relationships expert offers advice on the signs that a woman has ’come’ and explains why it’s not an exact science...
I’ve been with my boyfriend for several years and the relationship is great in most ways. Before me, he’d never had a long-term partner, only casual sex and has slept with nearly a hundred women. He watches a lot of porn and masturbates at least once a day. However, he has lost interest in sex with me. He looks at other women a lot, even when he is with me. He’s adamant he loves me, finds me attractive and would never cheat. He says the problem is because he associates sex with the ’thrill of the chase’. Do we have any hope for a future? I’m in my 30s and would like to start a family.
I’m looking for help in talking about sex. I’ve found lots of advice online that says you should say what you want, but I have no idea how to do that. I’m not very confident and get embarrassed easily. Sex is often disappointing because it isn’t how I want it. But I don’t know what to say to make it better.
This man in his mid 40s has come out to publicly reveal his wife’s attitude towards sex. He says she is never satisfied and he is wondering if he is the one with a problem.
I will deliberately wake my husband when he is at the pick of his sleep, informing him that I was going to the toilet. I would always make sure I get back to the room within 5 minutes, but I tell you, I often return satisfied.
Finding a good woman is something that ended with our parents’ generation - Girls are just monsters?
Girls are just monsters. We understand that in this day and age, it is tough to find a good man, but believe me, at least for you girls, there is still hope. For us men, to find a good woman, that is something that ended with our parents’ generation.
I hate being a black girl; I wish I could drain all the black blood out and rip the black skin off me
Hi everyone my name is Naomi, i am a 25 years old black female and i hate being ablack girl.
I have been married for 10 years and I feel I can’t go on anymore. I love my husband so much it hurts to have to tell him I want to leave. We have been fighting for four years now, since my dad died, and even more so for the last year, after my mom died. Mainly it’s because I need more sex and intimacy than he can provide.
I feel lost without my parents and I need human contact but he can’t seem to find it important enough to give it to me. He says he loves me but doesn’t have a sex drive any more. He is in his mid-40s and healthy. The more I ask about it the more he holds it back from me. We used to make love almost every other day for five years. Now it’s excuses all the time. Today he says: “I’m too tired.” Tomorrow, “my hip hurts.” The next day, “maybe tomorrow.”
If I have to do everything myself, why should I be married?
I’m a married man with four children under the age of 14. I’ve been with my wife for 16 years and married to her for 10, but I have a very dark secret.
I have been with my partner for two years and we get on really well, but I still think about my ex from three years ago.
My husband cheated on me, and I left him. I broke apart our family, and sometimes I look at our daughter and think I should have tried harder to forgive him.
Where I work (it’s a smallish company, employing only 10 or 11 people) we have 2 buildings. One is the sales, where I work and the other is the accounts building just up the road. Every now and then I need to pop up to the accounts office for various things.
I’m a 21 year old female and I’m messing around with my mom’s husband.He’s very attractive and have a unique swag about him.
We we first got married our sex life wasn’t great, but it was good. He was kinda lost as far as knowing the female body and when I told him to do something I knew would feel good to me, he’d do it no problem.
I’m 26 and I work in a really fun office full of people my age. I’ve been single for 18 months and in that time I’ve struck up a bit of a thing with this guy in my office.
My daughter Anna had boyfriends regularly and they were all quite the same. They were young, awkward teenage boys who were overjoyed they had a girlfriend ...
I’ve been married for seven years and we have two young sons. The other night my husband came home, sat me down and told me that he’s got a 19-year-old girl pregnant.
Porn addiction is a very real thing and can have just as dire consequences as an addiction to drugs or alcohol. One woman decided to share her struggle with porn to raise awareness of this lesser known illness.
If you’re experiencing pain during sex, you probably think it means there’s something wrong with you. However, it’s much more common than you think, it’s just that no one’s talking about it.