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Nkore iki ? Umukobwa nakunze duhuriye mu kazi yanyanze none ndumva njyiye gusara

Umusore uri mu kigero cy’imyaka 24 yatwandikiye yifuza ko tumugira inama aho afite ikibazo cyo kuba yarakundanye n’umukobwa bahuriye mu kazi gusa kuri ubu ibyabo bikaba bisa nk’ibyarangiye ariko ikibazo gikomeye umuhungu yananiwe kubyakira ku buryo yumva agiye gusara.

Mu magambo ye uyu mukunzi wacu yatwandikiye agira ati

"Murahoneza ncuti Z’urubuga rwacu rwiza dukunda nkaba nashakaga kubagisha
inama amazina yange nitwa Bertrand ( Izina ryahinduwe) nkaba ntuye mu mugi wa kigali ndi umusore mfite imyaka 24 nahuye n’umukobwa duhuriye ahantu mu kazi umukobwa turaganira byinshi ansaba nimero zanjye ndazimuha akajya ampamagara cyangwa byashoboka akanyandikira sms kuri whtsapp mbonako harimo urukundo ndamuhamagara mubwira ko nifuza ko tubonana abyumvira hejuru ahita ambaza umunsi ndawumubwira mubwira naho duhurira turahura musaba ko dukundana arabyemera turakundana tukajya tuganira tukabonana kenshi ubona nyine ko harimo urukundo rw’ukuri kuburyo nange naje gutwarwa numva ntakindi ngitekereza umunsi umwe antumaho ambwira ko ankeneye ngezeyo arambwira ngo arashaka ko tuganira byimbitse nuko turaganira byinshi abaza imyaka mfite mubwirako mfite imyaka 24. arambwirango andusha umwaka umwe afite 25.

Ubwo twaratandukanye turataha ariko mbona atishimye ngeze mu rugo ndamuhamara turaganira ambwirako ntakibazo afite. Ubwo bwarakeye ndamubaza nti "ko nshaka ko twazajyana iwanyu" nawe aransubiza ngo ndabona nonaha bitakunda ndamubaza kubera iki arambwirango ndabona ibyo gukundana nawe twabigenz agake kuko ndabona bitagikunze ubwo akimara kumbwira gutyo nahise niturahasi ku gitanda naje gukanguka ntazi aho ndi ariko ubu nabaye nk’umusazi nta kintu ngishobora gutekereza uretse we, niwe uza mu mutwe wanjye buri gihe ikindi kinyica nuko ampamagara ambaza amakuru. Ndashaka bavandimwe banjye mungire inama mbigenze nte ? Murakoze ntegereje inama zanyu zubaka"

ese wamugira iyihe nama

1.Uwo mukobwa wibuke ko nta makuru umufiteho ahagije, wari utaramumenya neza bihagije, wikishyiramo ko wahombye cyane kuko uwo mukobwa iwabo ntibakuzi kandi n’iwanyu ntibamuzi.
2.Nta mafaranga cyangwa ikindi kintu watubwiye uwo mukobwa yagutwaye bimwe ab’ubu bita gukura ibyinyo, wagakwiye kwishimira ko nta cyawe yagutwaye.
3.Igirire icyizere wumve ko niba uwo mukobwa yakwanze nta gikuba cyacitse, uracyafite ubushobozi bwo gukundana n’undi mukobwa kandi nawe birashoboka ko uzamukunda kurenza n’uwo.
4.Wikigunga gerageza urebe umuntu w’inshuti wizeye umuganirize ibyakubayeho biragufasha kumva uruhutse.
5.Gerageza gufata umwanya munini uhugiwe mu kazi kawe/mu bikorwa byawe wirinde gufata umwanya munini umutekerezaho, hindura imyumvire wamugiragaho wumve ko yagiye kandi hazaza abandi bamuruta.
6.Gerageza gufata umwanya wo kwishimana n’inshuti zawe, ukore imyitozo ngororamubiri kuko bigufasha kwirinda gutekereza kuri uwo mukobwa.

7.Uwo mukobwa birashoboka ko agira ngo arebe kwihangana kwawe kuva mukivugana kandi nta kintu kigaragara watubwiye mwapfuye, ntuzamubwire nabi ukomeze umuvugishe bisanzwe ariko niba ubona iby’urukundo byararangiye burundu gerageza kumwibagirwa ushake abandi kandi wumve ko abakwifuza ari benshi.
8.Iyo wagerageje gukora ibishoboka byose nta kosa wakoreye umukobwa mukundana akakwanga bimuturutseho ntukabiteho umwanya cyane, umunyarwanda yaravuze ati " kunda ugukunda". Kandi gukunda utagukunda ni uguta umwanya.

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HASHAKIMANA FELIX - 4/09/2018 saa 22:27

Weho uzihangane nakwanga burundu uzashake undi abakobwa barahari kandi beza baruta nuwo wo wariwakunze.
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kamanzi - 1/03/2018 saa 09:42

Ahubwo se à 24 ans ushaka kubaka urugo uzarushobora ga mwa?? nawe se umuntu abwira undi ngo "nifuza ko dukundana"??? uracyari muto, banza either ushake amafaranga, ndunva ushobora no kuba utararangiza kwiga. Nyuma uzamenya neza uko batereta ga mwa!!!
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uwimana - 27/02/2018 saa 01:48

wamugorewe reka kuzana amacakubiri murugo urashakakubabaza Abana vamubyurimo.
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NIYINGWANIRA PROTAIS - 7/04/2018 saa 19:29

mwarimumuhanuye aruwumvaarumvise
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NIYINGWANIRA PROTAIS - 7/04/2018 saa 19:29

mwarimumuhanuye aruwumvaarumvise
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rubyogo eric - 23/02/2018 saa 20:08

umva musore ibyiki gihe.ntiwamenya nubwo leta yigisha kurandura ingengabitekerezo nimizi yayo.wasanga yarasanze mudahuje ubwoko.wenda ukaba waranamuganirije ukamubwira ko papa wawe afungiye mpanga.magerage.nsinda.karubanda.azira byinshi.byose bizwi namwe mwahuye
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rubyogo eric - 23/02/2018 saa 20:08

umva musore ibyiki gihe.ntiwamenya nubwo leta yigisha kurandura ingengabitekerezo nimizi yayo.wasanga yarasanze mudahuje ubwoko.wenda ukaba waranamuganirije ukamubwira ko papa wawe afungiye mpanga.magerage.nsinda.karubanda.azira byinshi.byose bizwi namwe mwahuye
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imanizabayo - 29/03/2018 saa 05:42

musore shimimanakuba abikugaragarijembereyigihe tuzaushakeundinabakobwabokurisibabuzeabagabo
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rubyogo eric - 23/02/2018 saa 20:08

umva musore ibyiki gihe.ntiwamenya nubwo leta yigisha kurandura ingengabitekerezo nimizi yayo.wasanga yarasanze mudahuje ubwoko.wenda ukaba waranamuganirije ukamubwira ko papa wawe afungiye mpanga.magerage.nsinda.karubanda.azira byinshi.byose bizwi namwe mwahuye
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Mujyanama - 11/12/2017 saa 05:11

ahubwo uwo mukobw ani imfura , none se ubundi iyo akwemererera guhita mujayana iwabo wari kuba ubonye icyemezo cyo gukundana nawe , twara ibintu gake , reka amarangamutima ibyo urimo ni ibyabana bato numara guterwa indobo nk''eshatu uzamenyera , ni gutyo bitangira bikagenda biza gake gake , ubifate nk'ibisnzwe naguhamagara ujye umwitaba buriya we yamaze gukamirika niwowe usigaye kumenya icyo gukund abivuz emuri iki kinyejana .. shaka ibyo uhugiramo ukore akazi kawe utuje kandi wiyakire hanyuma uwo mukobwa uzamwitegereze neza uzasanga atariwe uri kw''isi nubibona utyo buzacya wabonye uwo kumusimbuza .. nibikunanira uziyica mumutwe kandi ni wowe n''abakureze bakagukuza muzaba muhombye kuko umukobwa we ntazabura abandi bamukunda kuko wanasanga banahari .. akaba akugereranya nabo akabona utari uwo kwihutana iwabo . twebwe ibyo twarabimenyereye iyo utari munyungu z'umukobwa ntabwo yahita akwiteza agutwara gake kugeza abonye ko ibindi yatekerezaga bitazakunda.
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AMINI KANYONI - 8/12/2017 saa 04:26

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uwimana - 27/02/2018 saa 01:43

wOwe nndumva warakubitsepe NGO bagutwa umukunzi nubunduwo yarasanzwe arikirura.
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janne - 26/11/2017 saa 05:42

ngwino twikundanire
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Sylvestre - 3/02/2018 saa 08:51

Mwikundire umuhoze
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Ndayishimiye Elic - 3/03/2018 saa 07:45

Ushireho Nimero Yawe
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Ndayishimiye Elic - 3/03/2018 saa 07:49

Ushireho Nimero Yawe
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- 1/05/2018 saa 19:09

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Type - 25/11/2017 saa 19:23

Sha jye ndumva arubwana nonese utaramubona haricyo warubaye jye uwanjye namutanzeho1million none ari gushidikanya ko twakorana ubukwe kandi Ndumva ntacyo bimbwiye icyambere nukumwegera ukamwerereja ukuri kwawe abakobwa ntabwo bakunda abahungu bato ariko gacye gacye ushobora kubimwumvusha akabyumva gabanya sentiment nadakunda uzashaka abandi kereka niba wumva ariwe wenyine uri mugihugu biragaragara ko ukundanye bwa mbere.
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